Welcome to a transformative journey through India, where I visited Rajasthan, Mumbai, and Varanasi. It challenged me at every step—adapting to the chaos, embracing unpredictability, and finding beauty in contrasts. It wasn’t just a trip; it was a lesson in resilience and perspective.

My name is Max, I grew up in Switzerland, in the part of the country that speaks French.
Switzerland is a country where several cultures coexist, mainly Germanic, French, and Italian. As a result, the population is quite open-minded when it comes to discovering new countries.

I was brought up by my mother alone, and we didn’t have much money. I wasn’t able to travel much during my childhood, even though I’ve always had an attraction for foreign countries, for what I didn’t know.

My passion for travel was sparked by a love for stories—be it through books, documentaries, or the tales of friends. I grew up with the emergence of social networks and the Internet; confronted with images of faraway places and landscapes. Even as a teenager, I was fascinated by them. I knew I wanted to discover these places for myself.

When I finished my studies and started working, I finally had the opportunity to go away and discover the world. And since then, I haven’t stopped.

 

 

Culture

 

I was quite apprehensive about this trip, based on everything I’d been told, I did a lot of research beforehand through books and travel guides. I also benefited from the experiences of friends who had been there. This made certain things easier, even if I obviously wasn’t prepared for everything.

I knew that Indians were friendly people, but I was surprised by how welcoming and kind they were. Despite the challenges of navigating crowded markets or train stations, there was always someone eager to help or share a story.

The train stations in Rajasthan were overwhelming at first—chaotic, loud, and bustling with people. I learned to go with the flow, double-check train numbers, and ask for help when needed. Many people in India speak English—often very well, better than I do. Translation apps filled in the gaps, and a smile and a bit of humor went a long way. Patience was my best ally, reminding myself not to expect things will happen the way it happens in my country, to love India as it is.

Asking locals and staying open to detours actually enabled some of the best experiences. Like stumbling upon a neighborhood celebration in Jaipur only happened because I let go of rigid plans.

I met a local in Mumbai who immediately offered to show us the highlights of the city. We ended up discussing and going out to eat together in the evening. At no time was there anything self-serving on his part—it was just pure kindness and a desire to share his culture and his city with strangers. To this day, we’re still in touch, and he’s someone I truly appreciate.

This turned moments of uncertainty into highlights of the trip. I made friends who gave me experiences I wouldn’t have had if I hadn’t been with a local. Like the chai vendor in Jaipur, a boatman in Varanasi, even a quiet temple in Udaipur away from the usual tourist path; every interaction added depth, warmth, and meaning to the journey.

It’s a bit of a cliché to say, but they brought India to life. The candid shots of everyday life, like chai vendors or children playing, often tell the most compelling stories.

The Ganga Aarti in Varanasi was one of the most fascinating. It’s a spiritual ceremony held every evening along the ghats of the Ganges River, especially at Dashashwamedh Ghat. Priests clad in traditional attire perform the ritual with synchronized movements, offering fire, incense, and prayers to the river goddess Ganga.

I watched the ceremony from a boat on the river. That night a family was saying farewell to a deceased loved one and had just lit a funeral pyre. I was immersed in the electricity and serenity of their chanting, the sounds of the bells, the flickering oil lamps with their reflection on the water, and the devotion of the people. The energy felt almost tangible, an unforgettable spectacle. There was something very strong in that moment, very dignified. After docking nearby, I didn’t get too close, as I didn’t want to disturb the intimacy of the moment, but despite the distance, I felt something very positive despite the circumstances.

I couldn’t imagine the culture shock that India represents until I had actually been there. Even though I’d talked about it with friends and done a lot of research beforehand, nothing prepared me for this outpouring of noise, color, and different smells when I arrived in this country.

I even expected India to be overwhelming, but I didn’t anticipate how it would also feel grounding. There’s a rhythm to life there that’s deeply humbling and inspiring.

For me, it was magical.

 

 

Places

 

Each city had its own distinct atmosphere.

For example, the whole of Rajasthan felt timeless, with its majestic forts and slow-paced life. Heritage havelis or boutique hotels in Rajasthan with their immersive experiences that feel like stepping into a royal past.

Mumbai was a chaotic yet captivating metropolis where tradition and modernity collide. Modern hotels near Marine Drive let you experience the city’s cosmopolitan vibe.

Varanasi was otherworldly, a place where life and death coexisted. I stayed in a guesthouse overlooking the Ganges which provided a serene retreat. It was the city that made the biggest impression on me. I was confronted with scenes of life that I’ll never forget. I was carried away by the city’s extremely pious atmosphere and labyrinthine alleyways. I went there with great humility, knowing the importance of this place for the different religions practiced in India.

 

 

India offers everyone what they’re looking for in terms of the environment. As I toured northern India, the differences were confronting. I saw very urban landscapes, like in New Delhi and Mumbai, and more desert-like areas in parts of Rajasthan.  In the far north, although I haven’t been there, it’s possible to go mountain climbing, just as it’s possible to go swimming in the ocean in certain coastal areas.

Within India itself, Rajasthan’s regal palaces and desert landscapes, Mumbai’s relentless energy, and Varanasi’s spiritual tranquility were like chapters in an epic story. It goes without saying that I was also confronted with more difficult elements, such as poverty, disease, and dirt. These are things you have to come prepared for because sometimes reality can be harsh.

The ghats in Varanasi became my favorite spot. Sitting by the Ganges and observing the rituals, I felt connected to something larger than myself. I’m not necessarily a deeply religious or spiritual person, but there’s such energy that comes out of those moments, it’s hard to explain it without having seen it.

The city of Pushkar, in Rajasthan, was a little surprise. I went there because I had a few days to spare in the region. I was delighted to discover a small town full of charm, with a very pretty lake in its center and numerous ghats.

Mehrangarh Fort in Jodhpur left me speechless. The history embedded in its walls and the panoramic view of the blue city below gave me a profound sense of place. I also had the chance to zip-line from the fort’s foothills. It was an exciting experience and an original way to see the fort from other perspectives.

I also visited the iconic Taj Mahal in Agra, an awe-inspiring monument that left me speechless with its beauty. It’s one of the new seven wonders of the world for a reason.

The bazaars of Jaipur were an explosion of color and sound. I haggled for handmade textiles, dodged cows wandering through the narrow lanes, and left with stories and souvenirs. It’s sometimes hard to cope with the many solicitations we receive, but with a smile and a kind word, it’s easy to manage.

 

 

Cuisine

 

I ate everywhere—from roadside dhabas to local restaurants. I love discovering new flavors and foods. Everyone warned me not to try street food, but I couldn’t resist. Luckily, I never encountered any issues. On the contrary, I got to try a lot of amazing dishes, often at the instigation of locals who shared their favorites. For example, I had the best omelette of my life at a small kiosk near downtown Jodhpur. To this day, I still dream of having another one!

Panipuri is a beloved Indian street snack—crispy little shells filled with a burst of spicy, tangy, and sweet flavors all at once. It’s a fun and messy treat, unlike anything else, that feels like a little adventure in every bite. The explosion of flavors in your mouth made it an unforgettable experience.

Dal baati churma in Rajasthan stole my heart. Its hearty flavors encapsulated the spirit of the region. The combination of lentils, bread, and sweet crumbled dough made it a comforting yet flavorful experience. I’ve tried to recreate it since I’ve returned home, but nothing quite matches the authenticity of the one I had in Rajasthan.

Masala chai was my daily favorite drink. It became a comforting ritual, waking me up in the mornings or giving me a break during the afternoon heat. I also loved the lassi in Varanasi. It’s thick and sweet, a cool treat after a hot day of exploring, and it was the perfect way to end a meal.

In Udaipur, I took a cooking class, and as the instructor taught us to make parathas, she shared her life story. Her warmth and humor turned the session into more than just a lesson—it felt like being welcomed into a family.

At the end, we all ate together with her children and grandchildren. It was a powerful moment and one that left a deep impression on me.

Learning to make traditional curries and chapatis felt like unlocking a part of Indian culture. For me, a country’s cuisine is an integral part of what I want to discover. What’s more, I was lucky to have the best instructor. To this day, I regularly reproduce some of her recipes.

 

Timing

 

The best time to visit India is from October to March. The weather is pleasant, with cooler temperatures that make exploring Rajasthan’s forts or walking along Varanasi’s ghats more comfortable. Plus, this period often coincides with festivals like Diwali or Holi, which offer a unique cultural experience.

Waking up early was my secret weapon. Visiting popular sites like Jaipur’s Amber Fort at sunrise meant fewer crowds and a magical golden light. It was my golden hour— the magical Indian morning light, especially in places like Udaipur’s lakes or Jodhpur’s blue streets.

I avoided isolated areas at night, stuck to well-lit streets, and used trusted transportation options. Being aware of my surroundings and listening to my instincts kept me safe. Traveling light also helped—less to worry about!

 

 

Essentials

 

I used a mix of transportation: tuk-tuks for short distances (they’re even available on some famous transportation apps), trains for longer journeys, and the occasional taxi in cities like Mumbai. Taking overnight trains across India was an adventure in itself, and embracing the chaos of train travel is the heartbeat of India. Always book in advance, bring snacks for the journey, as well as a sleeping bag, or at least something to give you an extra layer to sleep in. From the clatter of the tracks to the camaraderie of sharing snacks with strangers, it is one of the most genuine ways of India. Oh yes, and be prepared for delays—it’s relatively common.

I bought a local SIM card with plenty of data—it was affordable and reliable. Wi-Fi in hotels was decent, but having mobile data meant I could navigate cities or call for help if needed. I also downloaded maps in advance that I could consult without being online.

India is incredibly budget-friendly if you’re mindful. I balanced splurging on memorable experiences, like a luxury stay in Udaipur, with affordable street food and train rides. Prioritizing experiences over material things made the budget stretch further.

I kept a mix of cash and cards. ATMs are widely available (sometimes empty, though), but having smaller denominations was essential for tuk-tuk rides and street food. I also found that paying in cash often made things a bit more personal, especially when dealing with small shops or local markets.

Stay hydrated but only drink bottled water, avoid raw foods, and carry a basic first-aid kit. Street food is tempting, but trust your instincts—if it doesn’t feel clean, skip it. Also, always carry hand sanitizer—it’s a must when traveling in places with different hygiene standards.

Lastly, comfortable walking shoes, a lightweight scarf (perfect for temples and the sun), sunscreen, and whatever you can take to protect yourself from the sun and heat.

 

 

Lessons

 

India is vast and overwhelming, and trying to see too much in too short a time felt rushed at times. Next time I would slow down, explore fewer cities, and immerse myself more deeply in the local culture. Sometimes, the best moments come from lingering in one place and letting it unfold before you. Connecting with the locals they create a sense of belonging, just their presence dissolves any longing for home.

India’s chaos initially felt overwhelming, but as I immersed myself in its rhythm, I started to see the harmony within the disorder, the beauty in its imperfection. It’s a country that teaches you to let go of control and embrace the chaos in the journey, no matter how unpredictable. Life doesn’t always go as planned—trains get delayed, itineraries change—but there is magic in adapting to that uncertainty. Some of the the best moments come from unexpected detours.

Navigating crowded streets or learning to appreciate a slower pace of life, I became more patient and open to the unknown. Every challenge is part of the adventure. Staying present, focusing on the richness of the experiences deepened my gratitude for simple joys, like a warm cup of chai shared with a stranger or the breathtaking sight of a sunset over the desert in Rajasthan.

India pushed me to live with more intention, to seek meaning in the ordinary, and to approach life with curiosity and humility.

India left such a profound impression on me that leaving felt like saying goodbye to a close friend. Gratitude and a bittersweet ache. At the same time, I felt a sense of fulfillment, knowing I’d grown so much during the trip. I left knowing that I will be back one day.

 

Photography & Authored by Max

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